Power and Play

A Brand-New Group Coaching Experience

A 3-Month Journey into Pleasure, Power & Full Expression

Starts May 2026 (applications now open)

Option to join in-person or online cohort

Life doesn’t have to feel so heavy
— even when it’s deep.

There’s another way to do power.
There’s another way to do healing.
There’s another way to do growth.

It starts with permission, pleasure, and play.

Come learn all the things I wish I knew a decade ago in three months.

Power & Play Is for You If…

You’re ready to:

  • stop shrinking or dulling yourself to be acceptable

  • unhook from the inner patriarchy & good-girl programming

  • feel powerful without masking

  • deepen into your erotic intelligence and pleasure

  • explore shadow parts you’ve been avoiding

  • build your confidence, voice, and boundaries

  • become more expressed creatively, emotionally, and sexually

  • reconnect with your body’s truth

  • live in alignment with who you actually are

You’re not looking for another “fix your mindset” program.


You want embodied transformation.
You want support and sisterhood.


You want yourself back.

What We’ll Explore: The Six Gateways

Over 3 months, we’ll move through six distinct, powerful themes:

1. Overturning the Patriarchy Inside You

How to overthrow the inner oppressor using pleasure, responsibility, and rebellion.

2. Inquiry as Liberation: Mind Games that Set You Free

Rewire your narratives and dismantle the stories that quietly run your life.

3. Pleasure Alchemy: Becoming a Priestess of Desire

This is the PRACTICE of pleasure — the day-to-day, embodied cultivation of sensuality, turn-on, and desire literacy.

4. The Underworld: Shadow Work, Kink and Emotional Transmutation

This is the descent into the places where your untapped power has been hiding.

5. Pussy as Portal: Erotic Energy, Truth & Embodied Power

We explore pussy as teacher, compass, and portal to truth.

6. Embodied Rebellion: Full-Bodied Truth and Sovereignty

Meet the version of you who never abandons herself again.

WHAT YOU RECEIVE EACH MONTH

Two live cohort sessions
One for your group (in-person or online).
Deep teaching + coaching + guided practices.

One community playshop (all cohorts together!)
Ritual. Movement. Pleasure practices. Shadow play.
A joyful, connective, liberating group field. Held online.

One pre-recorded “shortcut” practice
A special recorded on-theme guided meditation, embodiment practice, or inquiry tool you can return to anytime.

Private group space (online)
For connection, accountability, integration, sharing, support.

A bonus special tarot reading session
Everyone who joins receives a personalized tarot reading from my favorite tarot reader Brent — an intuitive activation for your journey.

Brent is a certified Crystal/Angelic Reiki Practitioner, Meditation Teacher, and Tarot Instructor/Reader. With over a decade of experience, he has dedicated his life to supporting others wherever they are in their healing journey.

Access to the Power & Play Library
Recordings, practices, prompts, and bonus resources.

And of course… me.
My coaching, my energy, my presence, my transmission, my devotion to your unfolding!

About Your Guide

I’m Ekat, a Women’s Liberation Coach

I’m passionate about helping women break free from disempowering conditioning and samskaras so they can live with unapologetic authenticity and feel true freedom in their bones.

With years of executive coaching and trauma-informed somatic coaching under my belt, I blend traditional leadership coaching with a gentle, body-based approach to deep transformation, all rooted in nondual classical Tantra. My work is designed to help women reclaim their power, expand their pleasure, and cultivate unshakable confidence—both in leadership and in life.

For nearly a decade, I’ve helped women plug their energy leaks, take back their power, awaken their life force, and build the practical leadership and communication skills needed to create greater impact, freedom, and FUN. I’m a Duke grad, a former Googler, a writer, and a mom to a sweet and wild baby girl. I’m based in the Bay Area.


Certified Executive Coach through Accomplishment Coaching—a rigorous, year-long, in-person training program rooted in ontology (the study of the nature of being).

Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach through Layla Martin’s VITA Method—a powerful, science-backed, Tantra-based approach that works with the body and energy for profound transformation.

Student & Practitioner of Nondual Spiritual Traditions since 2014—I’ve studied with Christopher Hareesh Wallis, Adyashanti, and Kavitha Chinnaiyan.

I weave these disciplines together into an intuitive, deeply personalized coaching experience—guiding women through healing, embodiment, and leadership breakthroughs with a unique mix of depth, playfulness, and unconditional loving presence that will make you feel safe to be you and be seen in it.

What women say about working with me

  • “I’m impressed with how much transformation I experienced in just a few months of coaching with Ekat compared to years of going to therapy. Every session was powerful.”

    — Jill, Director, Therapy Director, San Diego

  • “Through reading, breath work, and play I’ve reached a deeper understanding of how to access my own pleasure. Last weekend my partner and I had the best sex in our 25 years together.”

    — Linda, Scientist, CA Bay Area

  • “I’m a picky bitch when it comes to teachers, and Ekat blew me out of the water. Her transmission is wise, potent, and incredibly loving.”

    — Naema, Sex Coach, Asheville

  • “Ekat helped me understand I can create my own magic. She gave me tools that enabled me to manifest the life I want — the best gift I’ve ever given myself.”

    — Jennifer, Consultant, San Francisco

  • “The investment is 100% worth it - these shifts are life-lasting.”

    — Stef, Startup Sales, San Francisco

Investment

In-Person Cohort (Bay Area) — $888

Online Cohort (Global) — $567

If you need a payment plan or additional support, simply message me on Instagram @iamrubyray or email hello@rubyray.co.
We’ll create something workable and supportive.

Logistics & Schedule

(All dates and times subject to change.)

See FAQ below for recording policy and more!

IN-PERSON COHORT (Bay Area)

Thursdays 6:30–8:30pm PT
Sessions held at my home in Oakland.

Tentative Dates:

March 5, March 19, April 9, April 23, May 7, May 21

ONLINE COHORT (Global)

Tuesdays 5:30–7:00pm PT
Sessions held on Zoom.

Tentative Dates:

March 3, March 17, April 7, April 21, May 5, May 19

MONTHLY ONLINE COMMUNITY PLAYSHOPS (ALL COHORTS)

Sundays 9–11am PT
Held on Zoom.

Tentative Dates:

March 29, April 26, May 24

The Private Portal Upgrade — $888

For women craving deeper, more personal support.

With this optional upgrade (limited availability) you’ll receive:

  • Three private 60-minute Zoom coaching sessions (one each month)

  • Bring anything — desire, relationships, sex, resentment, creative blocks, manager challenges, grief, heartbreak, boundaries, identity shifts, shadow, pleasure, confusion

  • Nothing is off limits.

  • Completely confidential and tailored to your specific path

  • Personalized rituals + practices

  • WhatsApp/voice-note support between sessions

Who This Is Perfect For

  • You want individualized attention and deeper transformation

  • You’re navigating a big life moment (career shift, breakup, creative emergence, sexuality awakening, identity change)

  • You process best one-on-one

  • You crave a space where ALL of you is welcome

  • You want direct support integrating the work into real life

Enroll here

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In-Person Cohort [Power & Play]
$900.00

Join the in-person Power & Play cohort beginning in March 2026.

This 3-month journey is designed for women who are ready to reclaim their pleasure, power, and full expression through live community work, embodiment, shadow exploration, and desire-led transformation.

Includes two in-person sessions each month (at my home in Oakland, CA), one monthly community playshop, a monthly guided “shortcut” practice, a tarot reading with Brent, and access to our private group space!

For women who want deep, intimate, embodied work in a powerful in-person setting.

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Online Cohort [Power & Play]
$567.00

Join the online Power & Play cohort beginning in March 2026.

This 3-month journey welcomes women from anywhere in the world to explore pleasure alchemy, shadow integration, somatic wisdom, and sovereign self-expression through live Zoom sessions, monthly community playshops, and guided embodiment practices.

Includes two online sessions each month, one community playshop each month, a monthly “shortcut” practice, a tarot reading with Brent, and access to our private online space.

For women who want potent transformation from wherever they are.

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Private Portal Add-on [Power & Play]
$888.00

Upgrade your Power & Play experience with three private 60-minute 1:1 coaching sessions (one per month) for potent, tailored, and completely confidential coaching support.

You can bring anything you’re navigating — desire, relationships, resentment, creative blocks, manager challenges, heartbreak, boundaries, pleasure, identity shifts, shadow work, or anything arising from the group journey.

Nothing is off limits.

These sessions offer personalized coaching, rituals, and integration to support your unique unfolding.

Sessions will be held via Zoom.

Available exclusively to Power & Play participants.

 FAQs

  • (All dates subject to change as needed.)

    IN-PERSON COHORT (Bay Area):

    Thursdays 6:30–8:30pm PT
    Sessions held at my home in Oakland.

    Tentative Dates:

    • March 5

    • March 19

    • April 9

    • April 23

    • May 7

    • May 21

    ONLINE COHORT (Global)

    Tuesdays 5:30–7:00pm PT
    Sessions held on Zoom.

    Tentative Dates:

    • March 3

    • March 17

    • April 7

    • April 21

    • May 5

    • May 19

    MONTHLY COMMUNITY PLAYSHOPS (BOTH COHORTS TOGETHER)

    Sundays 9–11am PT
    Held online.

    Tentative Dates:

    • March 29

    • April 26

    • May 24

  • Online sessions (including playshops) are recorded unless specified otherwise so you can revisit or catch up.

    In-person sessions are audio recorded (teaching portions only) so you can revisit or catch up.

    Full-class recordings will only be shared with members of the respective cohort. In-person cohort sessions will not be shared with the online cohort and vice versa. Playshop sessions (which combine the two cohorts) will be shared with both cohorts.

    I may occasionally share portions of the class, but only will share myself speaking unless explicit permission is obtained to include anyone else. Your confidentiality is of utmost importance to me.

  • No experience necessary! Come exactly as you are — I guide you every step of the way.

  • About 3–4 hours of live time per month, plus optional practices.

  • Your main container stays constant, but you can attend playshops with everyone.

  • This is not therapy but it can be very healing. It’s coaching, somatic work, and transformational journeying.

  • Yes — the online sessions are accessible globally.

  • Absolutely. All women and socialized-as-female beings are welcome.

  • Beautiful. Nervousness is often the body saying, “Something real is happening.”
    You are welcome as you are and you get to go at your pace.

  • All payments are non-refundable; this is a commitment-based container.
    Payment plans are offered by request.

  • The online cohort will be capped at 20 people max.

    The in-person cohort will capped at 12 people max.